In the still quiet hours of the middle of the night, I hold you and cry for you. My perfect and beautiful baby girl — I cry because you will know grief in your life.
You will know the pain of losing someone you love. Someday you too will lose your father as I have.
You will know the feeling of not being able to breathe as you realize you will never talk to your dad again. You cannot pick up the phone and tell him something funny that just happened. Something crazy. Something scary. Just something. Anything."I am filled with love and gratitude that you will feel this pain because that means you have a father worthy of your tears."
You will know the feeling of your safety net being ripped out from underneath you and not knowing where the bottom is because he was always there to catch you before you reached it.
I hold you and rock you because I am so sorry. I am so sorry you will know this sadness.
But, in the same breath, I am filled with love and gratitude that you will feel this pain because that means you have a father worthy of your tears.
Your daddy will be your protector. He loves you with every fiber of his being. He will be your safe harbor when life gets complicated. I know he will cheer for you through every one of your life’s journeys. You will know the same love that I knew and that love stays with you even after your dad is gone.
My hope is that you are much older than I was before you have to walk this path, but know that love will never die. Your love for your daddy and his love for you will go with you all the days of your life.
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